J\u016bs esat veicis intervijas, p\u0101rbaud\u012bjis atsauksmes un nol\u012bgis k\u0101du, kas, j\u016bsupr\u0101t, ir piem\u0113rots j\u016bsu \u0123imenei. Varb\u016bt j\u016bs pat izveidoj\u0101t auk\u013cu sarakstu, lai atvieglotu p\u0101reju. Ta\u010du var b\u016bt gr\u016bti zin\u0101t, vai j\u016bsu b\u0113rna aukle labi veic savu darbu.\n<\/p>\n
Lai par to p\u0101rliecin\u0101tos, jums, iesp\u0113jams, n\u0101ksies nedaudz pap\u0113t\u012bt. Da\u017ei vec\u0101ki, kuriem ir aizdomas, ka kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, var apsv\u0113rt iesp\u0113ju vis\u0101 m\u0101jokl\u012b uzst\u0101d\u012bt \"auk\u013cu kameras\", kas parasti ir savienotas ar lietotni, lai j\u016bs var\u0113tu piek\u013c\u016bt kamerai tie\u0161raid\u0113 no sava t\u0101lru\u0146a.\n<\/p>\n
Auk\u013cu videokameras uzst\u0101d\u012b\u0161ana, pat ja aukle par to nezina, ir likum\u012bga visos 50 \u0161tatos, ja vien neier\u012bkojat to aukles vannas istab\u0101 vai gu\u013camistab\u0101 (ja aukle dz\u012bvo j\u016bsu m\u0101j\u0101s). Tom\u0113r da\u017eos \u0161tatos ir \u012bpa\u0161i likumi attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz audio un video, t\u0101p\u0113c pirms kameru uzst\u0101d\u012b\u0161anas p\u0101rbaudiet savas valsts'vadl\u012bnijas. Un bie\u017ei vien ir iesp\u0113jams noteikt, vai kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, neejot tik t\u0101lu.\n<\/p>\n
Jums var b\u016bt iemesls ba\u017e\u0101m par aukli vai aukl\u012bti, ja:\n<\/p>\n
Bie\u017ei vien b\u0113rniem ir nepiecie\u0161ams piel\u0101go\u0161an\u0101s periods, lai pierastu pie jauna apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101ja. S\u0101kum\u0101 vi\u0146i var raud\u0101t, dusmoties vai mesties dusmu l\u0113km\u0113. Tas ir ierasts. Bet, ja b\u0113rns \u0161\u0137iet bail\u012bgs vai turpina b\u016bt nelaim\u012bgs, ir v\u0113rts to izp\u0113t\u012bt.\n<\/p>\n
Past\u0101v\u012bgais apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101js nekad nevar aizst\u0101t mammu vai t\u0113ti, ta\u010du b\u0113rnam ir j\u0101j\u016btas \u0113rti ar aukli vai aukl\u012bti. Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bsu b\u0113rns un apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101js nav izveidoju\u0161i saikni, vai ar\u012b aukle vai aukl\u012bte vienk\u0101r\u0161i nesniedz to siltumu un komfortu, kas nepiecie\u0161ams j\u016bsu b\u0113rnam. T\u0101pat k\u0101 ikvien\u0101s cilv\u0113ciskaj\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s, ir svar\u012bgi, lai b\u016btu pareiza \u0137\u012bmisk\u0101 saikne. (Ja jums ir aizdomas, ka kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, izgl\u012btojiet sevi par vardarb\u012bbas pret b\u0113rnu paz\u012bm\u0113m.)\n<\/p>\n
Tam, k\u0101 j\u016bsu b\u0113rns un vi\u0146a apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101js pavada laiku, nevajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt nosl\u0113pumam. Kad j\u016bs atgrie\u017eaties m\u0101j\u0101s, j\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, \u013coti v\u0113laties uzzin\u0101t, k\u0101 pavad\u012bta j\u016bsu b\u0113rna diena. Ja j\u016bsu apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101js nav atsauc\u012bgs, tas ir sarkans sign\u0101ls. Pat apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101jam, kura dzimt\u0101 valoda nav ang\u013cu, vajadz\u0113tu sp\u0113t izst\u0101st\u012bt j\u016bsu b\u0113rna dienas k\u0101pumus un kritumus, un vi\u0146\u0161 saprat\u012bs, k\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs v\u0113laties to zin\u0101t.\n<\/p>\n
Nelaimes gad\u012bjumi gad\u0101s, ta\u010du auklei vai aukl\u012btei ir r\u016bp\u012bgi j\u0101uzrauga j\u016bsu mazulis. M\u0113\u0123iniet noskaidrot, vai apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101js neatst\u0101j j\u016bsu b\u0113rnu bez uzraudz\u012bbas, kad vi\u0146am b\u016btu j\u0101uzrauga.\n<\/p>\n
J\u016bs abi kop\u0101 r\u016bp\u0113jaties par b\u0113rnu, t\u0101p\u0113c apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101jam nevajadz\u0113tu iztur\u0113ties t\u0101, it k\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 par b\u0113rna audzin\u0101\u0161anu zin\u0101tu vair\u0101k nek\u0101 j\u016bs.\n<\/p>\n
Atkal j\u0101atg\u0101dina, ka jums ir j\u0101b\u016bt komandai. Ir pr\u0101t\u012bgi atzin\u012bgi v\u0113rt\u0113t b\u0113rna apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101ja konstrukt\u012bvus ieteikumus, jo \u012bpa\u0161i, ja vi\u0146\u0161 pavada daudz laika ar j\u016bsu nemit\u012bgi main\u012bgo b\u0113rnu. Ta\u010du, ja rodas saj\u016bta, ka j\u016bs abi vienk\u0101r\u0161i neesat vienispr\u0101tis, kad runa ir par t\u0101diem pamatjaut\u0101jumiem k\u0101 uzturs, miegs un dro\u0161\u012bba, attiec\u012bbas ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 var neizdoties.\n<\/p>\n
Neatkar\u012bgs apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101js j\u016bs atkal un atkal atst\u0101s nelaim\u0113. Atrodiet k\u0101du, kur\u0161 ir ap\u0146\u0113m\u012bgs veikt savu darbu un \u0146em v\u0113r\u0101 j\u016bsu vajadz\u012bbas. Nokav\u0113\u0161ana un neattaisnota promb\u016btne var noz\u012bm\u0113t, ka uz vi\u0146u nevar pa\u013cauties ar\u012b citos aspektos.\n<\/p>\n
B\u0113rni m\u0113dz b\u016bt net\u012bri, bet, ja j\u016bsu b\u0113rnam dienas beig\u0101s uz pirkstiem bie\u017ei ir \u017eeleja no pusdien\u0101m vai ja, pa\u0146emot vi\u0146u no m\u0101j\u0101m, vienm\u0113r ir nepiecie\u0161ams p\u0101r\u0123\u0113rbties, t\u0101 ir probl\u0113ma. Ja j\u016bsu mazu\u013ca apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101js nesp\u0113j par\u016bp\u0113ties par pamatliet\u0101m, t\u0101 var b\u016bt z\u012bme, ka vi\u0146\u0161 nav gatavs apmierin\u0101t j\u016bsu b\u0113rna vajadz\u012bbas.\n<\/p>\n
Ja b\u0113rns \u0113d t\u0101, it k\u0101 visu dienu neb\u016btu \u0113dis, kad j\u016bs atgrie\u017eaties, vai ir tik noguris, ka nesp\u0113j patur\u0113t acis va\u013c\u0101, t\u0101 ir slikta z\u012bme. J\u016bsu aukle vai aukl\u012bte, iesp\u0113jams, neiev\u0113ro regul\u0101ru \u0113dienreizes vai gul\u0113tie\u0161anas laiku.\n<\/p>\n
Nekad nepie\u013caujiet, ka k\u0101ds j\u016bs apkr\u0101pj, melo vai jebk\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 maldina. Lai attiec\u012bbas b\u016btu veiksm\u012bgas, jums ir j\u0101sp\u0113j uztic\u0113ties savam apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101jam.\n<\/p>\n
Ja rodas \u0161aubas, uzticieties savai intu\u012bcijai. J\u016bsu intu\u012bcija, visticam\u0101k, ir pareiza, t\u0101p\u0113c, ja apr\u016bp\u0113t\u0101js jums ne\u0161\u0137iet piem\u0113rots, dodieties t\u0101l\u0101k.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sliktas aukles vai aukles paz\u012bmes J\u016bs esat veicis intervijas, p\u0101rbaud\u012bjis atsauksmes un nol\u012bgis k\u0101du, kas, j\u016bsupr\u0101t, ir piem\u0113rots j\u016bsu \u0123imenei. Varb\u016bt j\u016bs pat izveidoj\u0101t auk\u013cu sarakstu, lai atvieglotu p\u0101reju. Ta\u010du var b\u016bt gr\u016bti zin\u0101t, vai j\u016bsu b\u0113rna aukle labi veic savu darbu. Lai par to p\u0101rliecin\u0101tos, jums, iesp\u0113jams, n\u0101ksies nedaudz pap\u0113t\u012bt. Da\u017ei vec\u0101ki, kuriem ir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":51562,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51547","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-baby"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51547","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=51547"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51547\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/51562"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=51547"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=51547"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forbaby.blog\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=51547"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}